Think About It

Now that you know what an AP is, you think it's a good idea. You think you're ready, and you'd like to give it a shot. Well, you aren't. Not to crush all your hopes and dreams, but any sort of life altering decision requires consideration. This is especially true when you affect other's lives.

Things to Consider:

1.You will be working with children. This seems pretty straight forward only because it is. However, one of the biggest reasons APs give up and go home is they try to ignore the fact that they don't like/aren't good with/don't want to work with children. It's not fair to the children, the hostfam, or you to try and force yourself into something that will make you miserable and resentful. Don't make stupid choices.

2. You will be living with a family. I don't know whether to talk this one up or down. If you're incredibly independent and have lived on your own for a while, the change of pace required of you may be too much. You go from doing whatever you want and playing by your own rules to compromising and considering the wants and regulations of other people. For the first three months, it won't seem hard, but once you've adjusted it can be stifling.

It is a big help for those of you who will be venturing out for the first time. Living in a home with people gives a sense of security. It also presents opportunities for the cultural exchange we've talked about. Getting to know your hostfam and adapting to being part of the family also gives a good network of people who can help you if you need it. My hostfam is awesome. They're supportive and helpful of both my get-healthy plan and my learn German plan. Take advantage of what your hostfam offers.

3. You're moving to a foreign country. If you don't want to learn a new language and new culture, don't be an AP. First of all, it's rude to move somewhere and refuse to learn the language. Don't be the awful tourist for the whole year you're here. Attempting to speak the language always gives you a leg up with the locals. Secondly, learn something about where you're moving before you come. You don't have to be an expert, but you should learn enough to not completely embarrass yourself. Take some interest in what you're doing. No one is forcing you.

4. Au pairing is a job. You'll be working. If you aren't prepared to work, APing is not for you. Working with children is a challenging job. If you don't believe me, you need to not attempt it. Bring your best work ethic. You'll be living with your boss. If you aren't prepared to give 100 percent everyday, find something else.

5. You must be adaptable. You have to be able to deal with sick kids and plans changing and busy parents and unexpected visitors. You're moving to a totally different country. A positive attitude and a flexible character well get your through the rough patches smoothly.


I try not to sound too negative in the beginning, but in all honestly, it's better for you to know now whether APing is right for you. It will save you time, money, and heartache. If you're only interested in the travel aspect, shoot me a message, we'll find another option for you. For those of you still interested in APing, stick around. There's more to come.

Cheers and Thanks for Reading.